Many people are unfulfilled and trying to get unstuck in their life or career. Often they can not pinpoint why they feel the way they do. They just know they are not happy, and they may have no idea how to make themselves happy. Our work together is focused on helping them figure out their passion, and their purpose in life (not just in their career) which leads them to more clarity in direction, to take specific action steps and to have a greater sense of control over their life and their career.
If you are currently feeling stuck or missing direction in your career or in your life, here are 5 life planning steps you can take:
- Clarify your values - Values are what's most important to you right now. And while values do not change in the short term, they do change through your life as you enter and exit various life stages. It's good practice to regularly review your values to ensure you are aligned to what's most important to you. I remember a time early in my corporate career, when career progress was important to me and I worked long hours, took night classes and did what I believed was necessary to get promoted. As I moved into motherhood, I found kids and family were more important to me and while my career was still important, I did forgo career moves that would have meant relocating my family. Later, I left my corporate role in favor of running my own business to create more freedom and flexibility. If you are finding yourself at odds in your career or in your life, it may be that your values have shifted and you have not yet aligned your life to support what's most important to you right now, in this stage of your life.
- Identify your passion and purpose – What do you most enjoy doing? Are you doing "it"? Many people believe their passion should be their career. But there are many ways to fulfill your passion even if it's not your main career. I know an artist who is accumulating some amazing pieces of art he sculpts hoping to exhibit them one day. Art is his passion, and yet he earns his living as a teacher. He finds many ways to integrate his passion into his work. For example, he volunteers for set design for school productions, he teaches art during the summer months at a local art studio, and he sculpts in his spare time. If you are one of the lucky ones where you are passionate about the work you do in your career, congratulations. And if you are not, there are still many ways to feed and nurture your passion.
- Define your goals – Do you have a clear set of goals for this year? And for the next 3-5 years and beyond? Life is a marathon, not a sprint and your life plan should reflect that. A methodical, disciplined approach to realizing