It's the saddest day of your life. It's also the happiest day of your life. Your baby is ready to go away to school, and you're lost and scared, and thrilled and proud. It's moving day!
Getting junior off to college is a lot of work. There are endless forms and documentation, traveling for campus review sessions, entrance tests and the dreaded checks to write. The work continues with gathering the supplies, transporting all his stuff, and setting the dorm room up.
Dorm rooms are small and stuff tends to get crowded. Many long-term friendships can not survive sharing close quarters under the stress of school and part-time work responsibilities. Remember when you pack for junior – less is more.
Start with a few moving boxes and other moving supplies. Consciously limit what you pack to items that are functional and practical, while reserving a little space for the fun and the comfortable. When packing fragile items like framed wall posters or desk lamps, considering getting some moving blankets to help protect the fragile items during transport. Do not forget to bring your screwdriver set and fasteners or you'll find yourself making a run to the store soon after you arrive.
Other helpful items during move-in include a broom and dust pan, cleaning spray and paper towels, and some light bulbs. These things will help you start off right in the new space, which may have been vacant during the summer (and therefore a little dusty and musty)
Getting – and staying – organized is one way to keep your sanity. Take your first step by purchasing some moving supplies and moving blankets to help get you and junior on your way. And bring along the tissues, you're going to need them. …
So what’s the difference between career counseling and coaching? If you are like many people these days who are in work transition, this distinction may come in handy.
The truth of this is that many career counselors and coaches may be very similar and in both lines of work there are variations in practitioners which may make them more like one than the other. However, in counseling in general, there is an assumption that someone (the counselor) is an expert and has expertise to offer. And this can inherently make it somewhat more of a directive approach. Meaning that the counselor may gather information about their client’s skills, style, likes, etc and then direct them to a line of work that the counselor thinks they will be satisfied with. A counselor would be more likely to have a list of possible career-paths and to know all sorts of resources for you to get information, pay rates for different fields, etc.
A coach fundamentally comes from the perspective that you are the expert in your life and it is the job of the coach to support you to grow, develop and make powerful choices for yourself, including career choices. So, in the coaching model it would likely be more about self-discovery, finding what career will really light you up, have you excited to go to work each day. And then your coach would ask you the right questions to make sure you put together a plan that will have you investigating different career choices and pursuing them so that you can come to your own answers. The idea and the key distinction is that if the client comes to the answers on their own, it is potentially more powerful than if they are told by the career counselor a recommendation or prescribed course.
With all of this being said, the most important thing in choosing either a career counselor or a coach is that you feel chemistry and feel good about the person’s ability to support you in this very important aspect of your life. So, don’t be afraid to interview a career coach and a counselor (or multiple) to see which is best for you…tell them about yourself, what you like about work, what you don’t and any details about your situation. At the end of the call, ask yourself-do I feel empowered and confident in this person. You don’t need to hire the first person you speak to. Speaking to a handful of coaches and counselors will only take a couple hours of your time and can pay off greatly if you find the right relationship to guide you to making the best career choices for you.…